Self Starters
Self Starters
Begin with a Friendly Approach
1. Begin with a Friendly Approach. Don't start talking about deep or romantic subjects right away. To get things rolling, start with something light.
Hey, how are you doing today? I noticed that you are interested in [shared interest]. That’s awesome I am too.
2. Show a sincere interest. Listen intently and ask questions that are open-ended. Be interested in her thoughts, interests, and opinions. What sort of music do you like? How did you get started with the pastime she mentioned?
3. Be Who You Are Don't try to be too cool or say things you think she'll like. Perfection is more appealing than authenticity. It's fine if you're anxious; just try not to let it take over the conversation.
4. Use Body Language Wisely Maintainan open, relaxed posture, smile, and make eye contact. These nonverbal cues demonstrate your confidence and friendliness.
5. Be kind to her (sincerely) Maintain sincerity and respect. You have an excellent sense of humor, I like how passionate you are about [the subject she said. Unless it feels appropriate and respectful, do not make a hasty comment about a person's physical appearance.
6. Know When to Back Off Respect her if she appears disinterested, distracted, or uneasy. Don't take it personally, it's alright.
7. Be humble but confident. You don't have to be flamboyant or loud. Being at ease with who you are is often the first step toward confidence. That sit. More Thanks.
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